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Monday, March 13, 2006

Mon, 13 Mar 2006 02:14:02 GMT

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Monday, March 13, 2006

Mon, 13 Mar 2006 02:07:22 GMT

all i can say is amazing. i was looking through my folders & i have about a billion pictures of this girl lol. & i absolutely adore her. there are pictures of her without make up, and she is still drop dead gorgeous. & i love her eyes & how they are soo light colored. thats what i hate being asian, is that we have darkeyes, and not even contacts will change that!

Monday, February 27, 2006

Mon, 27 Feb 2006 04:08:33 GMT

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you…a relationship consists of two whole individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Wed, 22 Feb 2006 00:37:35 GMT

me and my phoo buddie. man, i love us :)

i absolutely love pho. i can never be sick of it for some reason. the place i go to everyday is just awsome.. i think thats the best pho place in the world... actually, its tied w/ another place i went to in vancouver, who knows what its called.. youll find like 20 pho places in a street when your in vancouver. but anywayss.. I also love spicy foods for all you people that dont alredy know that. spicy foods are daa shieet. =) after awhile from eating spicy foods.. you actually DEPEND on it lol, no joke.. youll use it on everything you eat.. orelse everything you eat w/out it has no taste. its kinda odd =S great entry eh?!

Sunday, February 19, 2006

Sun, 19 Feb 2006 20:14:18 GMT

trusting somebody.. is like lying to yourself. would you trust your bestfriend with your boyfriend if you went on a trip and they started hanging out together? or would you automatically think something was going on? would you lie to say to trust those two people because you think the truth might break your heart it breaks my heart when you tell me its so hard to trust me..

d&g 2006:

Sunday, February 12, 2006

Sun, 12 Feb 2006 21:54:55 GMT

In a month.. or even less than that, ill be in hong kong :) i am soo ready to do my shopping there, got my runners & money & a fann haha! im for sure going to take like a bilion pictures!! Thank god im getting out of calgary for a bit, away from all the drama and people. Came home today so buzzed .. not from weed or anything, but sheesha :S ..its actually super weird because i barely ever get this way.. i guess plus the fact i have been up and running around my whole day and didnt get enough sleep, thats probebly the reason for being overly relaxed from it haha. some people dont know how bad that is for you though.. ~~a bowl is equivalent to a pack of ciggs,~~ nvm its acutally equivilent to smoking 18 cigarettes and dayumm.. i personally think that is pretty gross. hmm.. tried to get some shopping done at the mall today and wow was it jam packed.. everytime i decided to even go into a store and take another glance at the shirts.. i couldnt even stand being so crowded and all. hmm well decided to update my page a little :) good day peoples!

beautiful hong kong :) - in 30 days